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Tribute to John Lander, 1955 - 2026

Dedicated to the memory of John Lander

This page is a tribute to John Lander. He is much loved and will always be remembered.

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Family flowers only, if desired please donate to the Princess Alice Hospice, thank you.

A celebration of John Lander's life

Funeral service is at North East Surrey Crematorium on Tuesday 16th June 2026 at 12:40 pm

Service

16 June 2026

12:40 pm

North East Surrey Crematorium

Lower Morden Lane Morden Surrey SM4 4NU

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Princess Alice Hospice

With love, Lydia and Alex xxx

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Princess Alice Hospice

You were a very special brother-in-law to me, always kind and caring. I miss our long telephone calls, always with laughter despite your very grave problems, you kept your wonderful sense of humour. I always told you you were as brave as a lion and now you are at rest. You will be greatly missed.

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Princess Alice Hospice

George and Marilyn O'Sullivan

Princess Alice Hospice

In memory of a very good neighbour.

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Princess Alice Hospice

For my amazing “little” brother John from your big “Sis”. John we so admired the way you dealt with the many difficulties and challenges you faced during recent years, your courage and resilience was an inspiration and example to us all. I will miss our long telephone calls, even if it was “just a quick call” we could still be talking an hour later, thank you for all your love and support. So many fond family memories to remember and cherish, you are, and always will be, in our thoughts and hearts. May you Rest in Peace little brother and May God Bless You xxx

Great Uncle John, what can I say. You were such a strong, positive and loving man. I remember you would always make me laugh so much every time I saw you, and no matter what was going on you would always make sure I was okay and know where you were if I ever needed someone. You will be missed so much, but I know there are plenty of people up there waiting to see you again. Love you so much!

Lit by Hannah x

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Princess Alice Hospice

With deepest and heartfelt condolences. John, you were a great work colleague, good friend and a very special person, who was so well respected by all those who worked with you. I feel privileged to have known you. Rest in peace my friend. God bless you always.

John F. Hill & family

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Princess Alice Hospice

Will miss you always john, thank you for everything ❤️

Princess Alice Hospice

To John, will miss you and all the laughs you brought to our family x

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Princess Alice Hospice

Dear John, We will always miss you. Such an important and wonderful part of our family. Lots of love xxx

Thank you for creating this memorial space in memory of John Lander A place where you can come together to celebrate his life and share cherished memories. Our thoughts and deepest sympathies are with John’s family and friends during this difficult time. Please know that we are here for you—if you need support or guidance, do get in touch.

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Princess Alice Hospice

Dad, thank you so much for being my blueprint through life. For showing me how to be such a kind and caring person. The lessons you taught me will last a lifetime.

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Princess Alice Hospice

Will miss you so much Dad. You will always be with us everyday. Xx

James and Jemma

Princess Alice Hospice

My darling, words could never express how I feel. I love and miss you so much. You are in my thoughts and my heart every single moment of every day. Thank you baby for being such a wonderful husband, and for all the special memories over the years. I will cherish them forever. Night night babe, sweet dreams, love you (more) Yours always Jackie xxx xxx

I am I and you are you, whatever we were to each other that we still are. Speak to me in the easy way which you always used. Why should I be out of mind because I am out of sight? Life means all that it ever meant, it is the same as it ever was.

Extract from a poem by Henry Scott Holland

Thank you for setting up this memorial to John. We hope that you find it a positive experience developing the site and that it becomes a place of comfort and inspiration for you to visit whenever you want or need to.

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